INFJ Empathy | Why INFJs Can Become People-Pleasers

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Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Also wait if you read the blog then you should know you are Ne Fe (since you have conscious Fe). Not Ni dominant. You can’t have “conscious Fe” (which means responsibility of the function) if you don’t have an extroverted dominant function. You should start informing the people you are talking about Ne Fe, not Ni Fe which doesnt exist. Because this is not true for Ni Ti.

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

okay MAN IM SORRY ill stop spamming your comments section with that blog and my dumb opinions about your type I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I WAS DOING AND WHY I KEPT PUSHING DUDE IM SORRY I WAS RUDE AS POOP AND A TOTAL SCHMUCK who should mind hi own business I SHOULD STOP SHOVING A DUMB TYPE DOWN YOUR THROAT WHICH YOU DONT THINK YOU ARE I AM AN AWHOLE EXTRAOODINAIRETASTIC PLS DONT HATE ME. i honestly dont know that much about which type maps to which, i just thought and run my mouth off :.[ pls delete my DUMBDUMB theories im a NIMPKUMPOOP POOP
im a froob. ;( i love your site erik x I APOLOGISEEE I LLOVE YOUUUU YOU YOU ARE SO FRICKING ADOR

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

(you dont have to post this btw)
i mean you could be. people of the same types might have different manifestations. like completely different. akhromant typed jk rowling as fi ni (obviously you cant be sure but she definitely could be a judging type). nicole kidman is apparently fi ni and shes always typed as an fiSe lol.
and ne fe types do the possibility things mainly with people so theyre not as jumpy as ne te whose about everything mechanical. keanu reeves is typed as ne fe
by akhromant (again cant be sure if ist correct), clearly isnt tony stark. if he can be ne fe then maybe you can be.
(also can you plsss delete my original comment on the blog, but keep up the linkkkk).

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

(you dont have to post this btw)
i mean you could be. people of the same types might have different manifestations. like completely different. akhromant typed jk rowling as fi ni (obviously you cant be sure but she definitely could be a judging type). nicole kidman is apparently fi ni and shes always typed as an fiSe lol.
and ne fe types do the possibility things mainly with people so theyre not as jumpy as ne te whose about everything mechanical. keanu reeves is typed as ne fe
by akhromant (again cant be sure if ist correct), clearly isnt tony stark. if he can be ne fe then maybe you can be.
(also can you plsss delete my original comment on the blog, but keep up the linkkkk).

Joker
Joker
1 year ago

This has been a problem in my life as infj. I often work at the service of the group and need others to like me everything depends on this.

Joker
Joker
1 year ago

This has been a problem in my life as infj. I often work at the service of the group and need others to like me everything depends on this.

lem
lem
1 year ago

being an infj and lacking sufficient Te can be very difficult LOL. most people at school are liike drones. the they care more about quick learning. its the function that everyone uses to skip and get a headstart on others. needing to understasnd how it works is infj menace

um
um
1 year ago

As someone who is consdierate to thers I have been continuously been blindsided by falsehood, particularly certain manipulative and racist SJWs. These types of people outsource their knowledge to others and make a reaction based on it. In this case people who are SJWs and react based on what will make them look good, what society will tell them andnothing else
Psychopaths cannot feel, but can mimic emotion, making them masters of deception
Psychopaths can pass any lie detector due to their lack of the ability to feel meaning that they will not show any ticks or heartrate changes or any giveaways that they are lieing
Psychopaths are very self centered/narsasistic because they don’t care what happens to other people
Psychopaths are tone deaf to morality because they’re unable to feel anything towards others

um
um
1 year ago

As someone who is consdierate to thers I have been continuously been blindsided by falsehood, particularly certain manipulative and racist SJWs. These types of people outsource their knowledge to others and make a reaction based on it. In this case people who are SJWs and react based on what will make them look good, what society will tell them andnothing else
Psychopaths cannot feel, but can mimic emotion, making them masters of deception
Psychopaths can pass any lie detector due to their lack of the ability to feel meaning that they will not show any ticks or heartrate changes or any giveaways that they are lieing
Psychopaths are very self centered/narsasistic because they don’t care what happens to other people
Psychopaths are tone deaf to morality because they’re unable to feel anything towards others

mazie
mazie
1 year ago

I have multiple issues with narcissistic personalities. They seek out givers and I swear I’m a magnet. I’m working on making boundaries and clarifying issues in a straightforward manner at this point with multiple people.
He acted like a very nice and charismatic guy. I didn’t know it at the time, but he used to steal expensive clothes and give them to me. He also did a lot of other crazy stuff, but never against me. I have now cut contact with him, because I think he might do something really horrible someday, and I don’t want to know him when that happens.

mazie
mazie
1 year ago

I have multiple issues with narcissistic personalities. They seek out givers and I swear I’m a magnet. I’m working on making boundaries and clarifying issues in a straightforward manner at this point with multiple people.
He acted like a very nice and charismatic guy. I didn’t know it at the time, but he used to steal expensive clothes and give them to me. He also did a lot of other crazy stuff, but never against me. I have now cut contact with him, because I think he might do something really horrible someday, and I don’t want to know him when that happens.

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Hi I’m the person who started that shitshow in your comments section from my dumb assumptions cos i was being self serving + misinterpreted things. you made the whole video on mistypes cos of that. (i think)
pls ignore all the rude comments on this, feel like i provoked youre really nice and clearly an infj -.-
(is apology you dont have to post it lol)

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Hi I’m the person who started that shitshow in your comments section from my dumb assumptions cos i was being self serving + misinterpreted things. you made the whole video on mistypes cos of that. (i think)
pls ignore all the rude comments on this, feel like i provoked youre really nice and clearly an infj -.-
(is apology you dont have to post it lol)

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Just posting (again) cos you look kinda sad in your recent video? YOURE DOING SO MUCH TO CHANGE PEOPLE 😮 also youre so sweet :O
(sorry if this looks kinda creepy) My behaviour was HORRIFIC, also self serving. I have no right to dictate what type you are btw, also you’re clearly someone who’s trying to make a big change in people and I’m jealous of it maybe?

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Just posting (again) cos you look kinda sad in your recent video? YOURE DOING SO MUCH TO CHANGE PEOPLE 😮 also youre so sweet :O
(sorry if this looks kinda creepy) My behaviour was HORRIFIC, also self serving. I have no right to dictate what type you are btw, also you’re clearly someone who’s trying to make a big change in people and I’m jealous of it maybe?

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

ill tell you why i sent the comment, i sent the comment cos i took the mbti to kind of constrain my personality i was like mbti will give me a way to define this unstoppable internal turmoil, this kind of inescapable thing that ive always had (i think its astrological actually), constantly changing personas, into something i can put into a neat box, so i can predict it, and i can block our the stormyness :(( ibut then i find i cant change it and ill alwys be that way
so i was like eff it and sent this kind of cringey comment to kind of break all of it while trying to hang onto a persona and im super sorry it was self seving and inconsiderate. im just saying because i wasnt trying to be an hole.
also another thing is i dont want harry murrel (from cognitive personality theory) to see it becasue he could take it horribly and it could be turmoilous (if thats a word). he wants connection (not really the truth) and he feel like he wont get it. im selfsih for posting that

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Will you please delete the comment, its super embarrassing. I feel like you arent deleting it because you’re kind of annoyed, and are like consequences of your actions etc. I sent it because it because I was trying to pretend i was angry for a different reason but i was angry at all the lies about that i can constrain my personality into this when i am what i am, theres no reason for the ‘turmoil’ or anything, ive tried for years to get rid of it, and when i find out that its all a hoax, theres no actual method or ‘development tool’ that can get me out of it, and i was this pathetic creature hanging onto this image and i found out i have to start from scratch again building my persona i got really nihilistic and frustrated. because the mbti was helping me constrain this kind of anguish, into a way i could properly interact with people and down and not be at the beck and call of my constant mood shifts, into a persona
i think in particular because harry murrell hasnt been sending videos for a LONG TIME, which im kind of worried he might have seen it can you plss delete the comment

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Will you please delete the comment, its super embarrassing. I feel like you arent deleting it because you’re kind of annoyed, and are like consequences of your actions etc. I sent it because it because I was trying to pretend i was angry for a different reason but i was angry at all the lies about that i can constrain my personality into this when i am what i am, theres no reason for the ‘turmoil’ or anything, ive tried for years to get rid of it, and when i find out that its all a hoax, theres no actual method or ‘development tool’ that can get me out of it, and i was this pathetic creature hanging onto this image and i found out i have to start from scratch again building my persona i got really nihilistic and frustrated. because the mbti was helping me constrain this kind of anguish, into a way i could properly interact with people and down and not be at the beck and call of my constant mood shifts, into a persona
i think in particular because harry murrell hasnt been sending videos for a LONG TIME, which im kind of worried he might have seen it can you plss delete the comment

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

interesting thing search up typhon in astrology:
I have them in many of my main planets, the sun, moon, mercury, etc which I believe caused this particular problem. a lot of very anguished people have it.

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

interesting thing search up typhon in astrology:
I have them in many of my main planets, the sun, moon, mercury, etc which I believe caused this particular problem. a lot of very anguished people have it.

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

what people think is fi is like turbulence, it isnt a learned thing i literally had said turmoil it since birth with 0 external influence 🙁
kurt cobain, heath ledger, princess diana all have typhon, i literally became obsessed with mental illnesses at like 10 primarily because i empathised with them and my own issues,and became obsessed with people with psychological issues.
I HAVE 3 TYPHONS.
the entire school avoids me due to how i appear. i feel this horrific stormy thing and its like self attacking, ie drowning someone, and basicall since i was about 2 iwould be aware that i had a problem and try to find a root problem for it…i have this fear of being an inherently evil person, but i think its because im suppressing my shadow…all these emotions come from that.

Halppppmeeee
Halppppmeeee
1 year ago

I thought you made the video directly because of my comment…. and everything you said was because you thought your friends were mistyped. and it was a kinda angry expose that they’re technically sensors and fe blind and you didn’t like them. I thought all the things you were saying about emotions was directly about my comment, and this just shows how small and self centred your worldview can get -.- and I was scared more about my persona than just being normal.
That’s why I got angry and made those passive agressive comments. Then rewatxhed it and realised it’s all talking about yourself and then apologised but didn’t state why because the reason was too um cringey
-.-

Halppppmeeee
Halppppmeeee
1 year ago

I thought you made the video directly because of my comment…. and everything you said was because you thought your friends were mistyped. and it was a kinda angry expose that they’re technically sensors and fe blind and you didn’t like them. I thought all the things you were saying about emotions was directly about my comment, and this just shows how small and self centred your worldview can get -.- and I was scared more about my persona than just being normal.
That’s why I got angry and made those passive agressive comments. Then rewatxhed it and realised it’s all talking about yourself and then apologised but didn’t state why because the reason was too um cringey
-.-

Halppppmeeee
Halppppmeeee
1 year ago

Also being yourself and dwelling in only negative emotions is from fear of being yourself
Usually you forget a repressed part of your personality, usually out of extreme fear of rejection. And then the next life you don’t have the memory so you don’t actually know you’re subconsciously pushing something out of your psyche. And then you don’t know what’s causing the turbulence, but it’s actually fear of yourself. Like forever i thought I had something inherently wrong with me, like naturally turmoilous. Im horridly self critical but only of this tiny part of the ego I’m aware of, which was filled with this internal battle of self hatred. And then you identify with this extremely small vigorous internal battle lol. Usually typhon has conscientiousness (which is where the fi typing comes from), try to reel in own immorality, trying to battle with the good/bad parts of people, feel sad but idealistic about people. hoping that the bad things people do are coming from a good place. (Which is where the fi stereotype of defending and pitying the bad guys comes from imo). Most aren’t as bad as me when it comes to this (ie most are functional, I have weekly explosions based on containing whatever ego issues I have haha (typhon is this insistent pressure that suddenly comes out, and I’m someone whose super contained and quiet in general), even though with covid I don’t have to go to school I still have no external triggers but I still have the same turmoil

Halppppmeeee
Halppppmeeee
1 year ago

Also being yourself and dwelling in only negative emotions is from fear of being yourself
Usually you forget a repressed part of your personality, usually out of extreme fear of rejection. And then the next life you don’t have the memory so you don’t actually know you’re subconsciously pushing something out of your psyche. And then you don’t know what’s causing the turbulence, but it’s actually fear of yourself. Like forever i thought I had something inherently wrong with me, like naturally turmoilous. Im horridly self critical but only of this tiny part of the ego I’m aware of, which was filled with this internal battle of self hatred. And then you identify with this extremely small vigorous internal battle lol. Usually typhon has conscientiousness (which is where the fi typing comes from), try to reel in own immorality, trying to battle with the good/bad parts of people, feel sad but idealistic about people. hoping that the bad things people do are coming from a good place. (Which is where the fi stereotype of defending and pitying the bad guys comes from imo). Most aren’t as bad as me when it comes to this (ie most are functional, I have weekly explosions based on containing whatever ego issues I have haha (typhon is this insistent pressure that suddenly comes out, and I’m someone whose super contained and quiet in general), even though with covid I don’t have to go to school I still have no external triggers but I still have the same turmoil

Halpp
Halpp
1 year ago

Ohhhh ok I feel better now

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Ur amazing btw
I love your stuff

Halp
Halp
1 year ago

Ur amazing btw
I love your stuff