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Category: INFJ

Enneagram, INFJ, MBTI Types, Personality Psychology

Misconceptions of INFJ Rarity

INFJs are both rare and common, causing confusion in the personality world. I break down how Enneagram fixations lead to common INFJ mistypes and why true INFJs often overlook their type.

Jul 28, 2017

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Friendship, INFJ, Personality Types

Ten Reasons You Need An INFJ Friend In Your Life

INFJs are rare, intuitive, and deeply loyal friends. Here are ten reasons why you need an INFJ in your life—from understanding you without words to turning dreams into visions.

Jul 27, 2017

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Books, INFJ, Personality Types

Would you like an INFJ Handbook?

I’m starting an INFJ handbook exploring the diverse types, personas, and growth paths of INFJs. Share your questions to help shape this guide!

Jul 12, 2017

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INFJ, INTP, Personality Types

Are you an INFJ or INTP personality type?

Wondering if you’re an INFJ or INTP? I explain the core differences between these types, including their values, cognitive functions, and how they perceive reality.

Apr 11, 2017

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Enneagram, INFJ, Personality Growth

Common INFJ Problems / The ESTP Shadow

Discover how INFJs under stress can manifest the ESTP shadow—becoming reckless, selfish, or cold—and learn practical strategies to stay balanced.

Mar 2, 2017

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INFJ, Personality Types

Ten INFJ Truths

A personal perspective on ten INFJ truths, exploring what makes INFJs unique and how these insights can help you understand yourself better.

Jan 7, 2017

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INFJ, Personality Types

INFJ Advanced

Discover the four INFJ subtypes—Balanced, Overwhelmed, Disillusioned, and Defensive—and learn how to recognize and grow from each state.

Dec 20, 2016

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Cognitive Functions, INFJ, Personal Growth

The INFJ’s Loops And Patterns

Discover INFJ cognitive loops at their best and worst. Learn to avoid the ESTP shadow and embrace your flow state. A guide from Erik Thor.

Dec 2, 2016

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INFJ, Myers-Briggs, Personal Growth, Relationships

The INFJ Doorslam

Ever wondered why INFJs suddenly cut people off? Discover the different forms of the INFJ doorslam from ghosting to the detach mode, and learn how to handle it with maturity.

Oct 28, 2016

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INFJ, Subtypes

The Four INFJ Subtypes

I want to show that the INFJ personality types are less rare and more varied than people think. There are more than four INFJ subtypes, but I don’t want to get too complicated right now. This is because the INFJ description often is written for a type with unusually high emotional intelligence. Many of the…

Oct 13, 2016

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