Your personality is about how you see yourself and the role you take for other people and learning to see. The goal is to recognize who you could be beyond that.

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Your thoughts and your mindset shapes your behaviour. It’s easy to start to identify with or think you are your thoughts, when your thoughts are just meant to be information.

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I want to better understand my emotions and instincts

Like your thoughts, you can become attached to your emotional state, and your emotions can shape your actions and behaviour.

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Your values represent your ideal conceptions of who you could be and what your best life would look like. What is it your want from your life beyond your personal preferences and what you are used to?

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Category: Relationships

INFP, Personality Types, Relationships

INFP Relationships

Explore the world of INFP relationships, including compatibility with other types, communication tips, and growth strategies for deeper connections.

Jan 9, 2020

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ENTP, Relationships

ENTP Relationships

Looking for love as an ENTP? Explore the best personality matches for ENTPs, including the INTJ soulmate dynamic and tips for healthy relationships.

Jan 9, 2020

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ENFP, Relationships

ENFP Relationships

Explore ENFP relationship compatibility with all 16 personality types. Find out which matches work best and why.

Jan 9, 2020

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Personal Growth, Psychology, Relationships

We don’t need friends, we need to make friends

Studies show loneliness is rising. Learn why making friends is a luxury worth more than success and how to prioritize connection.

Nov 11, 2018

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ENFP, INFJ, Relationships

ENFP and INFJ Relationships

The Mirror Relationship This is a video/article request from Becky, one of my newest supporters on Patreon. Like in Socionics, I describe the ENFP and INFJ relationship as a mirror relationship, or a relationship between two types that come at the same problem from a different dimension. There is a big likemindedness from the two…

Aug 22, 2018

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Personality, Relationships

Why extroverts and introverts get lonely

Loneliness isn’t just for introverts. Learn why extroverts feel lonely too and how to build deeper connections based on your personality type.

Feb 21, 2018

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Personal Growth, Personality, Relationships

The Love Languages For All The Types

I explore how each personality type expresses and receives love. Understanding these diverse love languages can deepen your connections and foster personal growth. Discover new layers of affection.

Nov 21, 2016

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Enneagram, Personality Growth, Relationships

The Idealist’s Five Love Languages

Explore the idealist’s five love languages: connection over ideas, unsolicited affirmations, devotion, connection, and metaphysical touch. Find out how you feel most loved.

Nov 18, 2016

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INFJ, Myers-Briggs, Personal Growth, Relationships

The INFJ Doorslam

Ever wondered why INFJs suddenly cut people off? Discover the different forms of the INFJ doorslam from ghosting to the detach mode, and learn how to handle it with maturity.

Oct 28, 2016

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Personality tests, Relationships

Relationship test

Discover your unique love style with my free relationship test. Join the live beta community and gain insights into your attachment patterns.

Jan 1, 1970

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